Over the past few days we have been celebrating Christmas with our families. Although each family is completely different the VALUE of family is the same. One side of the family is very religious and makes it a point to focus on the real meaning of Christmas. The other side of the family is not as religious however the focus is on family and spending time together.
Over the years the holiday has taken on different meanings for different people but the constant of family has been there forever. These are the times that some people might not enjoy and almost view as an obligation but seeing a family grow is remarkable. I remember when I was one of the little kids and running around now I have a nephew that is running around and most of my cousins have kids. Although I am the oldest grandson I have not had any children yet. I am sure people are wondering why but it is because I grew up in a time when I had to see my parents struggle to make ends meet. My father was constantly working and could not take time away as his responsibility was to provide. I did not want to be this way therefore my wife and I have waited. Now the question is when ????
Family is one of the 5 keys to a balanced life and the focus on family can be very rewarding. However the word family I feel can be defined as people who have a direct impact on your life and will be there when you need them. My brother is one of the most important people in my life and I can count on him for anything as can he count on me. There are cousins that are part of my family tree but I have a hard time calling them family they do not call, do not care and are consumed with their own life. I respect my grandparents for trying to keep us together but this could have been solved early with their own children.
The same goes for business sometimes relationships are built very early and then tying to change them or "break into" them is hard. Be kind to people, treat people fairly, and remember they could soon be part of your FAMILY.
Tuesday, December 26, 2006
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